Reasons Love between the age of 16years to 24years Don’t Last Long
True Relationship means a lot – to- many teenagers, as a young kid growing up, watching Love series on TV, you’ll start dreaming of a relationship, thinking about what your first relationship gonna look like – thinking about first love.
More you growing up – you will realize people around you had boyfriends and girlfriends, look like tradition everyone must have boyfriend and girlfriend, a lot will start going through your mind.
Between 15 years to 24 years or from 25 years to 30 years – Relationship you may experience full of up and down, a lot of happy moments and a lot of disappointments.
Between 16 years to 24 years you going to experience a lot of things – good and bad – you have to choose whether you want to destroy your life or build an amazingly beautiful life. Love is a beautiful thing, being in a relationship is good but sometimes everything may backfire.
1. Sometimes first Love not Best Love:
Your first love may turn out to be what hurt you – make you cry – and destroy your future. Have you realized we have different grace and mercy, a lot of women enjoy their first love while a lot of women experience heartbreak during their first experience in a relationship?
First love comes with a lot of expectations – expectations which may not happen, sometimes when you grow up as an adult you will realize your first love was not really your best love especially when you love the wrong person.
In the future – someone will come into your life, cherish you, and love you the ways you deserve.
2. Your dream relationship may be shattered:
Always good to be in a relationship, loving him or her better and better, making a lot of sacrifices but your dreams of a relationship may be shattered, your life goals may be shattered especially when you end up loving the wrong person between 16 years to 24 years.
When you love a wrong person, got impregnated, he denies and abandon you, your future will be shattered.
At a young age – a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship has a lot of consequences.
3. Consequences of your decision:
When a girl is in love, she will like being around her man, she’ll like playing with him, she will disobey her family just to be with her man, such decisions don’t always end well. Sometimes disobeying your parents or family members will cost you more harm than good. Young girls always make wrong decisions when they’re in love, which attracts more consequences.
4. Heartbreak and regrets:
Once you end up with the wrong person, surely you’ll experience heartbreak, from 16 years to 24 years you will experience a lot of disappointments, betray and unexpected hurts. Loving wrong will lead to being taken for granted, unappreciated, disrespecting, abused, and lack of love.
You will find yourself giving your best in the relationship without receiving anything, sometimes you will receive an emotional wreck with a lot of regrets.
Once you keep making wrong decisions, once you keep dating wrong people, once you keep dating for wrong reasons – it’ll only end in pains and regrets.
5. I will marry you in the future:
One of the best feelings during the teenage relationship, believing a relationship will lead to marriage in the future when you keep hearing such promises from a man you love so much, I can remember those years how I WILL MARRY always make girls love us – guys – more deeply.
One of the best ways to get a girl to love you and show seriousness is by promising her marriage, a lot of young girls victim of this fake promise.
6. Failed promises:
I can remember promises your ex-girlfriend made to me but she end up not keeping those promises, sometimes the relationship between the age of 16 years to 24 years don’t normally lead to expectations,
we promise each other marriage in the future, she promises ( I will never leave you) I will never marry another person. There are a lot of promises people always end up not keeping in a teenage relationship, many promises but unable to fulfill them.
7. Beautiful Feelings:
16 years to 24 years relationship – You will have a beautiful feeling about life, love, fun, and being loved, sometimes wish to experience that teenage relationship again, the passion, the belief, the goal and loving for real – always beautiful and lightning soul. A teenage relationship is beautiful, makes someone feel complete. Having someone who loves you during teenage age, feels totally amazing.
8. Sometimes doesn’t last long:
Life is meaningful, life is unfair, life is never perfect, life is unpredictable. Life of a woman totally different from the life of a man. A woman needs to settle down on time, guys need to settle a lot of things before thinking about marriage, this reality of life has made many relationships break down.
A girl -18 years dating 22 years boy – sometimes this relationship don’t lead anywhere, before this 22 years boy will start thinking about marriage, the 18 years already start growing old.
I remember my mom told me ” Joshua you’ll not marry her, stop killing yourself ” as a young man growing up – I don’t understand but when were 25 years everything become clear to me ( One day – she asked me ” when will you build a house, buy a car and achieve your goals )
I look at her – I realize she’s making sense but hard for me to accept the love of my life about to leave me.
Sometimes girls cannot wait – that’s reality, they need to settle down – if she decides to wait for the guy – would he choose her in the future?
9. Parents and Family Members:
Definitely, you’ll have problems with your elder brother and sister because they won’t support you in keeping your boyfriend/girlfriend. In some families – they’ll do anything humanly possible to break the relationship but if you failed to listen to their advice and warning – such a decision will attract serious consequences. Parents and family members play a big role in the teenage relationships – good or bad ways.