10 Signs Your Man Is Not Ready For Marriage
1, He’s Broken Up With You Several Times
If breaking up to make up is the way he constantly operates in your relationship, he is certainly not ready for the lifetime commitment of marriage. Both of these traits are not what you want in a future husband.
2, He Makes Negative Comments About Marriage
Pay attention to what he says. If he repeatedly makes negative comments about marriage every time the subject comes up, he’s basically telling you that he was not interested in it. Instead of brushing his comments off and hoping that you can change his opinion, store those comments in your mind and refer back to them the next time you think about wanting to marry him.
3, He’s Selfish
If It’s always about him in the relationship and he treats you as an afterthought, that’s who he is and who he will continue to be. Selfishness has no place in a marriage, so save yourself the trouble and stop fantasizing about something that won’t happen
4, When He Talks About His Future It Doesn’t Include You.
If he is always speaking about his future in “l” terms instead of “we”
Chances are he doesn’t see you as a fixture in his future and marrying you is not on his radar.
5, He Doesn’t Show Interest In Getting To Know Your Family
A man who wants to marry you will go out of his way to make sure they establish some sort of relationship with your family. If your man shows no interest in forming a relationship with your family, that’s definitely a sign that he’s not thinking about it forever.
6, He Changes The Subject When The Topic Of Marriage Comes Up
This is the most obvious sign. If your man quickly changes the subject every time you or anyone else brings up marriage, then you already have your answer as it relates to your man having wedding belles on his mind.
7, He Constantly Downplays Your Relationship To His Family And Friends
A man who is just using you to pass the time will consistently downplay your relationship and your role in his life. You have to ask yourself why you even want to be with someone who doesn’t proudly tell everyone how much you mean to him
8, He’s Overly Critical Of You
Putting up with constant criticism in your relationship is something that no one should ever have to go through. A man who always points out your faults and flaws is not someone you want to marry at all.
9, He’s Very Indecisive
You want someone who is firm in their decision to be with you for the long haul, instead of a man who changes the intensity of his feelings as frequently as the APC and weather.
10, He Still Has A Wandering Eye
If your man is still looking,
entertaining and pursuing other women, then he is extremely far away from being married. Men who are on the marriage track are so in love with their future wives, that they don’t even have the desire to think about other women.
This behavior is also a gateway to repeated infidelity, so you need to address it immediately.