Being in a relationship with a man can be stressful when he doesn’t love you or treat you like you deserve.
Falling in love with a wrong man can damage your life, frustrate you and lead you hating on other men.
Non matter how a man hurt you, don’t use it judge other people, Love doesn’t suck, love doesn’t hurt, Love doesn’t cause heart breaks rather wrong people you having been loving or giving chance in your life sucks, they’re one who hurt you not love or other people, don’t hate the word “Love”
I want you to start changing your mentality if you really want to grow up, you need to believe true love still exist, if you don’t believe on something how do you want get what you don’t believe – you need to believe – so that love can come your way.
1. Don’t disrespect your man:
Even if your man is broke, things not working out for him, everything seen frustrated and complicated around him – don’t disrespect him rather be there for him
Men don’t like unnecessary attitude towards them just because things are hard for them. If opportunity presents itself for you to disrespect him – control yourself – such attitude gonna make him believe you right woman for him, he will stay with you forever.
2. Don’t be bored ( boring) woman:
Ladies likes fun, like being taken care of, they want to feel loved. Don’t be a boring woman, being bored will not help your relationship.
Play with your man, try new things with him, buy Whot game and other games and play with him.
Playing those games with him will create new click between him and him – you may end up becoming best of friends – which will be good for your relationship in short run and long run.
3. Make your man happy
He’s your man right? – your husband that’s who we talking about here.
Dear sister play with your man on bed and off bed, he’s your husband. Rock him hard, weak him at home and he won’t think of cheating, remember that thing was made for married people, have the fun – make sure your man totally satisfied, if cheated on you – cheating in his blood. As a lady – do your best and handle him personally at home.
4. Care for your man:
Women are created to take care of men, once a man providing you have top priority to take fully care of him.
Sometimes, things always turn out bad for men that’s life of a man – such happen to every man once in awhile, if your man find himself such situations – support him and take good care of him.
Best time to appreciate and love him during moments he dying deeply, if he find out count on you, he will never ever forget you, he will love only you.
Men always appreciate women who can support them in good times and bad times.
5. Don’t be a taker – Be a giver
Many women want guys doing everything for them. They want a man to care, call, text, drop money for her, buying things for her and doing a lot things for her without her returning at least 20% out of 100%.
Life has changed – not about what he can offer you but what you can offer a man, some girls don’t have anything to offer a man and you want him to love only you and stay with you forever.
You need to have a lot of things offer your man, contribute to the family and support him spiritually and physically, definitely he will love only you.
6. Don’t mingle too much with other guys:
Every man is jealous unless he doesn’t love you or value you, no man want to see his woman with another man mingling – it hurts – if you really want your man to stay with you, you have limit a lot of things especially communicating with other men, remember too much of everything is bad, gat limit some things so that your man will feel secured.
7. Love matters:
I know you love him and ready to sacrifice a lot for him that’s great but loving someone deeply who doesn’t love you always don’t end well. If you looking for a man who will love only you and stay with you forever – make sure he feels something for you – make sure there’s love between the two of you – him loving you back matters.
8. Learn how to cook good meals:
Any woman can cook food but does she know how to cook good sweet meals, no man want to eat outside when chef wife knows how cook perfectly.
One thing have discovered about girls – many don’t know how to cook but they believe they know how to cook – many women believe their taste of food actually the best way – food is food that’s lie – food different from food, learn how to cook, if you don’t know how to cook, don’t be ashamed and go learn about it.
Secure your man and your home, food what happen daily in a relationship – imagine you doing something bad every day – and you want him to stay with you.
9. Stop pushing him away:
If you want him to stay with you – stop pushing him away from home and your side. Don’t start denying him that thing – once a man cheat first – he will join cheating league of legends – and you can’t bring him back – avoid making him to cheat. He’s your husband why denying him that – don’t be cause of your problem. Avoid creating what will end up hurting you forever.
10. Appreciate him
Appreciate everything doing for you – little or big – appreciate them. Being caring and loving. Respect him and cherish him. Love him so much and always be there for him.
Love your man unconditionally.
11. Sometimes – Be weird and silly:
Is good being calm and cool but sometimes you need to be wired and silly, many men want their woman to be naughty once in awhile, crazy moments remain close to heart, be cool and hot, be wired and silly and maintain the real woman you are.
12. Give Him the Reason to Love only you:
Not easy to keep man this days – but you can make happen by presenting yourself with dignity and respect. Be a good woman, prove you not same with other women, show your man – a lot different – prove to him all women not same.
You have to make him feel relaxed and happy.
13. Make yourself irreplaceable:
Every man want peace of mind – are you giving your man peace of mind?
Stop nagging, stop being annoying, stop overreacting, stop killing him emotionally, stop making him regret being with you and make yourself irreplaceable.
Be a woman he would always want to be around with – care about his happiness and be silly when you guys doing that thing – be a romantic woman and crazy woman.
14. Dress Good and Dress Sexy:
I don’t need to say much about this – you need still need – to – be – that girl he saw and feel attracted to.
Everyone want good looking man or woman, if you want your partner to stay with you – dress good and dress sexy inside your home.
15. Forgive and Forget
Your partner will mess up once in awhile, if you love someone so much – have to forgive and forget – once there’s sincere apologies. Keeping relationship need spirit of letting and overlooking things, remember nobody is perfect.